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What does it mean?
Responsibility depends on mutual recognition; if you are unseen, you owe no duty.
In plain terms
You are only responsible if others see you.
What can you take from it?
Recognition creates responsibility.

Where it applies

  • conflict
  • identity work
  • activism

Putting it to work

  • seek acknowledgment
  • question obligations

Questions to consider

  • When do you owe others?
  • Do you feel seen?

Another view

Moral duty might exist without recognition.

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