:[T]o whom can I be responsible, and why should I be, when you refuse to see me? And wait until I reveal how truly irresponsible I am. Responsibility rests upon recognition, and recognition is a form of agreement.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Responsibility depends on mutual recognition; if you are unseen, you owe no duty.
- In plain terms
- You are only responsible if others see you.
- What can you take from it?
- Recognition creates responsibility.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- When do you owe others?
- Do you feel seen?
Another view
Moral duty might exist without recognition.
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