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What does it mean?
While the author knew his identity internally, external affirmation from critics and readers was crucial. Writing is communication and requires connection with others.
In plain terms
External approval validated my identity as a writer.
What can you take from it?
External validation helps reinforce your internal sense of identity.

Where it applies

  • creative work
  • professional life
  • seeking feedback

Putting it to work

  • seeking feedback
  • sharing work

Questions to consider

  • How much do you need approval?
  • Does feedback change your self-view?

Another view

Relying on external validation can make you vulnerable to criticism.

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