I do then with my friends as I do with my books. I would have them where I can find them, but I seldom use them.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- I treat my friends like books—keep them nearby but rarely use them.
- In plain terms
- Friends are kept close but not often called upon.
- What can you take from it?
- Value friendships without overburdening them.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What does it mean to ‘use’ a friend?
- How can you balance closeness and independence?
Another view
Comparing people to objects can diminish genuine connection.
More from Ralph Waldo Emerson
The only reward of virtue is virtue; the only way to have a friend is to be one.
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