There is always a best way of doing everything, if it be to boil an egg. Manners are the happy ways of doing things; each once a stroke of genius or of love, - now repeated and hardened into usage. They form at last a rich varnish, with which the routine of life is washed, and its details adorned.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Good manners are repeated actions that began as acts of love or skill.
- In plain terms
- Manners are habits that make life nicer.
- What can you take from it?
- Practice good manners to improve your daily interactions.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Why are manners important?
- How do manners start?
Another view
Rigid manners can sometimes feel impersonal or fake.
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