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What does it mean?
Good manners are a mutual gift given freely by the self to others.
In plain terms
Politeness is a gift we give to each other.
What can you take from it?
Practice manners as a gift to others.

Where it applies

  • social interaction
  • business
  • friendship

Putting it to work

  • be polite
  • give respect
  • observe norms

Questions to consider

  • Are manners a gift?
  • How do you show respect?

Another view

Etiquette can be superficial and mask true intentions.

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