Good manners is the art of making those people easy with whom we converse. Whoever makes the fewest persons uneasy is the best bred in the company.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Good manners make others comfortable during conversation.
- In plain terms
- Being polite means making other people feel easy and relaxed around you.
- What can you take from it?
- Manners are about comfort of others.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How do you make others feel at ease?
- Is good manners about comfort or rules?
Another view
This definition reduces manners to mere social ease rather than moral duty.
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