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What does it mean?
Good manners make others comfortable during conversation.
In plain terms
Being polite means making other people feel easy and relaxed around you.
What can you take from it?
Manners are about comfort of others.

Where it applies

  • social gatherings
  • professional meetings
  • casual chats

Putting it to work

  • listen actively
  • avoid making others awkward

Questions to consider

  • How do you make others feel at ease?
  • Is good manners about comfort or rules?

Another view

This definition reduces manners to mere social ease rather than moral duty.

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