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What does it mean?
A union made under harsh conditions is hard to break without divine power.
In plain terms
Some partnerships are so flawed only fate can separate them.
What can you take from it?
Bad unions often require external forces to end.

Where it applies

  • difficult relationships
  • family disputes
  • legal separations

Putting it to work

  • seek mediation
  • accept reality
  • set boundaries

Questions to consider

  • What binds people together unfairly?
  • Who should decide when to separate?

Another view

Not all difficult unions are doomed; some improve over time.

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