When you call people we you find it easy to be unfair to them, since you yourself are included in the condemnation.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Labeling a group of people as 'we' allows you to unfairly judge them while hiding your own faults.
- In plain terms
- When you say we, you include yourself in the criticism you are making.
- What can you take from it?
- Avoid blaming 'we' without acknowledging your own role in the problem.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What are you blaming on 'us' that is actually your fault?
- Do you include yourself in the problems you identify?
Another view
Sometimes a group genuinely shares responsibility for a fault.
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