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[The value and dignity of the individual] is threatened whenever it is assumed that individual desires, hopes and ideals can be fitted with frictionless harmony into the collective purposes of man. The individual is not discrete. He cannot find his fulfillment outside of the community; but he also cannot find fulfillment completely within society. In so far as he finds fulfillment within society he must abate his individual ambitions. He must 'die to self' if he would truly live. In so far as he finds fulfillment beyond every historical community he lives his life in painful tension with even the best community, sometimes achieving standards of conduct which defy the standards of the community with a resolute 'we must obey God rather than man.'

Reinhold Niebuhr#20

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Individual fulfillment requires balance: living within community but maintaining personal integrity, even if it creates tension.
In plain terms
You need community to be fulfilled but must keep your own values too.
What can you take from it?
True life requires balancing self and community.

Where it applies

  • personal development
  • social activism
  • spiritual life

Putting it to work

  • setting boundaries
  • engaging community
  • maintaining conscience

Questions to consider

  • Where do you find meaning?
  • How do you balance self and others?

Another view

Some find fulfillment solely in one or the other.

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