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What does it mean?
Heinlein notes that while masturbation is practical and safe, it lacks human connection and companionship.
In plain terms
Self-pleasure is easy and safe but lonely compared to being with someone.
What can you take from it?
Solitary acts are safe but lack connection.

Where it applies

  • personal reflection
  • relationship advice
  • mental health

Putting it to work

  • considering relationships
  • evaluating solitude
  • discussing intimacy

Questions to consider

  • What makes an act fulfilling?
  • Is connection necessary for satisfaction?

Another view

Many find sexual activity alone fulfilling without needing connection.

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  3. It's amazing how much 'mature wisdom' resembles being too tired.

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