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What does it mean?
Heinlein states that sexual intimacy requires friendliness or it should be replaced by mechanical alternatives.
In plain terms
If sex isn't friendly, use toys instead.
What can you take from it?
Prioritize friendliness in intimacy to avoid isolation.

Where it applies

  • discussing sexual health
  • advising on relationships
  • comparing intimacy types

Putting it to work

  • evaluate relationship quality
  • choose intimacy styles
  • prioritize connection

Questions to consider

  • Is friendliness essential for intimacy?
  • How do we measure connection?

Another view

Mechanical toys lack emotional value even if they are sanitary.

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