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What does it mean?
Jealousy is sick and love is healthy; confusing the two creates turmoil.
In plain terms
Jealousy is not love; they are different and mixing them is bad.
What can you take from it?
Do not mistake jealousy for love.

Where it applies

  • romance
  • personal growth

Putting it to work

  • recognize toxic patterns
  • value healthy love

Questions to consider

  • How do you show love?
  • Is jealousy ever healthy?

Another view

Some love includes protective instincts that look like jealousy.

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