Ben, the ethics of sex is a thorny problem. Each of us is forced to grope for a solution he can live with -- in the face of a preposterous, unworkable, and evil code of so-called 'morals.' Most of us know the code is wrong; almost everybody breaks it. But we pay Danegeld by feeling guilty and giving lip service. Willy-nilly, the code rides us, dead and stinking, an albatross around the neck. You, too, Ben. You fancy yourself a free soul -- and break that evil code. But faced with a problem in sexual ethics new to you, you tested it against that same Judeo-Christian code...so automatically your stomach did flip-flops...and you think that proves you're right and they're wrong. Faugh! I'd as lief use trial by ordeal.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Heinlein argues that conventional sexual morality is flawed and forces people into guilt despite breaking its rules. He suggests individuals should trust their own judgment rather than relying on outdated codes.
- In plain terms
- Old moral rules about sex are broken and make people feel guilty even when they follow their own conscience.
- What can you take from it?
- Trust your own conscience over rigid moral codes when making personal ethical choices.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What moral codes do you follow unconsciously?
- How do you resolve conflicts between personal desire and social rules?
Another view
The quote dismisses established moral frameworks without offering a clear alternative system.
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