While there are practical and sometimes moral reasons for the decomposition of the family, it coincides neither with what most people in society say they desire nor, especially in the case of children, with their best interests.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Family breakdowns occur due to practical needs but often conflict with stated desires and children's welfare.
- In plain terms
- Family changes happen for reasons but hurt families sometimes.
- What can you take from it?
- Family stability conflicts with reality.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What serves children best?
- How do needs override desires?
Another view
Some family structures are inherently unsustainable.
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