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What does it mean?
Leaving home marks a form of self-creation where individuals define their own identity.
In plain terms
Leaving home is like being born again as yourself.
What can you take from it?
Independence shapes personal identity.

Where it applies

  • coming of age
  • personal growth
  • life review

Putting it to work

  • reflect on identity
  • pursue independence
  • define values

Questions to consider

  • How did leaving home change you?
  • What part of yourself did you create?

Another view

Identity formation happens throughout life, not just at home.

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