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What does it mean?
Seeing ourselves as others see us would prevent many mistakes and foolish behaviors.
In plain terms
If we saw ourselves the way others do, we would avoid many mistakes.
What can you take from it?
Self-awareness helps us avoid social blunders and pride.

Where it applies

  • self-improvement
  • socializing
  • criticism

Putting it to work

  • practice empathy
  • seek honest feedback

Questions to consider

  • Do others see us accurately?
  • What blind spots do we have?

Another view

It assumes others' perspectives are always accurate or helpful.

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