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What does it mean?
The speaker declares they will stop caring for others if they receive no care in return.
In plain terms
I will ignore others if they ignore me.
What can you take from it?
Reciprocity is needed in relationships.

Where it applies

  • strained friendships
  • feelings of neglect

Putting it to work

  • set boundaries
  • evaluate relationships

Questions to consider

  • Do you feel heard?
  • Is ignoring others worth it?

Another view

This stance can escalate conflict rather than resolve it.

More from Robert Burns

  1. Then gently scan your brother man, Still gentler sister woman; Tho' they may gang a kennin wrang, To step aside is human.

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  2. Should auld acquaintance be forgot, And never brought to min'? Should auld acquaintance be forgot, And days o' auld lang syne?

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  3. Ye're aiblins nae temptation.

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