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What does it mean?
Mutual support is ideal, but independence is okay if it's not mutual.
In plain terms
I'll support you if you support me, otherwise I'll go alone.
What can you take from it?
Support should be mutual, but going alone is okay.

Where it applies

  • relationships
  • friendship
  • struggle

Putting it to work

  • Seek mutual support
  • set boundaries
  • value independence

Questions to consider

  • How do you know when to ask for help?

Another view

Sometimes help is needed even if mutual support isn't possible.

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