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What does it mean?
Relationships require space and independence; too much closeness can stifle growth.
In plain terms
Do not smother others because people need space to grow.
What can you take from it?
People need space to grow, not constant closeness.

Where it applies

  • parenting
  • friendship
  • romantic relationships

Putting it to work

  • setting healthy boundaries
  • allowing independence
  • resisting clinginess

Questions to consider

  • Are you giving your loved ones enough space?
  • How do you balance closeness and independence?

Another view

Some relationships require high interdependence without stifling growth.

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