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A six-year-old will not understand that 'By and large it has been demonstrated that violence is counterproductive to the constructive interaction of persons and societies.' True. But a child can better understand that the rule out in the world and in the school is the same: Don't hit people. Bad things happen. The child must understand this rule is connected to the first rule: People won't share or play fair if you hit them.

Robert Fulghum#15

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Simple rules are better understood by children than complex academic arguments.
In plain terms
Kids understand simple rules better than big arguments.
What can you take from it?
Use simple rules to teach children.

Where it applies

  • parenting
  • teaching
  • conflict resolution

Putting it to work

  • simplify rules
  • connect cause and effect
  • use clear language

Questions to consider

  • How do you teach kids?
  • Is simple better?

Another view

Complex issues sometimes require detailed explanation.

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