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The four of us are talking dancing, and laughing, and recalling the joys of being out on the floor and having that timeless feeling that comes from being caught up in the music. 'Nobody should miss that,' says Dave. On the face of it, Dave's family and I don't have a lot in common. They're Mormons and Republicans. I'm a Unitarian and a Democrat. When Dave was on the County Council, we were on different sides of some important issues. I grew up a Southern Baptist in Texas where dancing was a mortal sin in the eyes of Almighty God, but coffee was OK. Dave grew up a Latter Day Saint where dancing was considered righteous - but not coffee. But . . . we're dancers. And laughers. That's a strong bond right there. And we're committed to being useful in our world. And if you love something, like dancing, and you pass it on, like Dave and his wife do, you've been very useful by my standards. Dancing is a lifetime, equal opportunity sport. And I will never drive by Dave's garage again without having the finest feelings for the man and his wife and mother who are inside taking good care of their corner of this world. They've added an important dimension to the lives of the young people of their town - that lightness of being that belongs to dancers.

Robert Fulghum#33

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Shared passions like dancing create strong bonds across deep cultural and political divides.
In plain terms
Dancing and laughing together connects people who differ on politics and religion.
What can you take from it?
Shared joy builds bridges where politics divides.

Where it applies

  • social gatherings
  • diverse groups
  • reconciliation

Putting it to work

  • find shared activities with opponents
  • prioritize joy over division

Questions to consider

  • What shared passion connects you?
  • Can joy overcome political divides?

Another view

Some divides run deeper than shared hobbies.

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