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What does it mean?
Children learn by watching behavior more than listening to instructions.
In plain terms
Watch your actions because kids learn by copying them.
What can you take from it?
Lead by example because children copy what you do.

Where it applies

  • parenting
  • teaching
  • leadership

Putting it to work

  • model desired behavior
  • monitor your actions around kids

Questions to consider

  • What do your children watch you do?
  • How well do you model your values?

Another view

Children also need direct guidance.

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