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About this quote

What does it mean?
Criticizing someone harshly does not effectively change their behavior or morals.
In plain terms
Scolding people does not make them stop doing wrong things.
What can you take from it?
Avoid relying on scolding to change someone's behavior.

Where it applies

  • parenting
  • workplace management
  • conflict

Putting it to work

  • lead by example
  • use positive reinforcement
  • listen first

Questions to consider

  • Does scolding ever work?
  • How do you influence others?

Another view

Sometimes a direct reproof can be a wake up call.

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