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I do not believe in forgiveness as it is preached by the church. We do not need the forgiveness of God, but of each other and of ourselves. If I rob Mr. Smith and God forgives me, how does that help Smith? If I, by slander, cover some poor girl with the leprosy of some imputed crime, and she withers away like a blighted flower and afterward I get the forgiveness of God, how does that help her? If there is another world, we have got to settle with the people we have wronged in this. No bankrupt court there. Every cent must be paid...

Robert G. Ingersoll#18

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Ingersoll critiques religious forgiveness that absolves individuals without repairing harm to victims, emphasizing human accountability over divine pardon.
In plain terms
Forgiveness should fix harm done to people, not just please God.
What can you take from it?
True forgiveness requires making amends to those you hurt.

Where it applies

  • conflict resolution
  • moral reasoning
  • personal growth

Putting it to work

  • apologize sincerely
  • repair damage
  • avoid empty absolution

Questions to consider

  • Is forgiveness possible without restitution?
  • Who deserves the power to forgive?

Another view

Some emotional healing may come from internal forgiveness alone.

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  3. The present is the necessary product of all the past, the necessary cause of all the future.

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