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To me, the tenderest word in our language, the most pathetic fact within our knowledge, is maternity. Around this sacred word cluster the joys and sorrows, the agonies and ecstasies, of the human race. The mother walks in the shadow of death that she may give another life. Upon the altar of love she puts her own life in pawn. When the world is civilized, no wife will become a mother against her will. Man will then know that to enslave another is to imprison himself.

Robert G. Ingersoll#221

FreedomLoveChoiceCivilizationMotherhoodSacrifice

About this quote

What does it mean?
Maternity is portrayed as the most profound human experience, involving immense sacrifice and love. The quote argues that true civilization means mothers should not be forced into childbirth against their will.
In plain terms
Motherhood involves great sacrifice and love, and women should choose if they want to be mothers.
What can you take from it?
Civilization requires respecting a woman's choice in motherhood.

Where it applies

  • ethical debates on reproduction
  • discussions on women's rights
  • philosophical reflections on parenthood

Putting it to work

  • advocating for reproductive rights
  • writing about maternal experience
  • educating on consent

Questions to consider

  • What does true civilization require regarding reproductive choice?
  • How does sacrifice define love?

Another view

The quote idealizes motherhood and may overlook non-maternal paths to fulfillment.

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