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I do not believe that the tendency is to make men and women brave and glorious when you tell them that there are certain ideas upon certain subjects that they must never express; that they must go through life with a pretence as a shield; that their neighbors will think much more of them if they will only keep still; and that above all is a God who despises one who honestly expresses what he believes. For my part, I believe men will be nearer honest in business, in politics, grander in art - in everything that is good and grand and beautiful, if they are taught from the cradle to the coffin to tell their honest opinion.

Robert G. Ingersoll#45

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Ingersoll argues that suppressing honest expression and forcing pretense harms integrity, while teaching children to speak freely fosters goodness in all areas of life.
In plain terms
People become better when they are taught to speak honestly from childhood.
What can you take from it?
Freedom of expression builds character and integrity.

Where it applies

  • ethical leadership
  • parenting
  • public discourse

Putting it to work

  • encourage open debate
  • teach critical thinking
  • value transparency

Questions to consider

  • How do you balance honesty with kindness?
  • What happens when society punishes truth?

Another view

Absolute honesty without tact can sometimes harm relationships or safety.

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