Falling in love is the one illogical adventure, the one thing of which we are tempted to think as supernatural, in our trite and reasonable world. The effect is out of all proportion with the cause. Two persons, neither of them, it may be, very amiable or very beautiful, meet, speak a little, and look a little into each other's eyes. That has been done a dozen or so of times in the experience of either with no great result. But on this occasion all is different. They fall at once into that state in which another person becomes to us the very gist and centrepoint of God's creation, and demolishes our laborious theories with a smile; in which our ideas are so bound up with the one master-thought that even the trivial cares of our own person become so many acts of devotion, and the love of life itself is translated into a wish to remain in the same world with so precious and desirable a fellow-creature.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Love is an irrational force that makes ordinary people feel extraordinary and reshapes your entire worldview.
- In plain terms
- Falling in love makes you feel like the other person is everything, even if they are just ordinary.
- What can you take from it?
- Love defies logic and changes how you see the world.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Why do we fall for certain people?
- How does love change your priorities?
Another view
Idealizing someone can lead to disappointment when reality sets in.
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