To be honest, to be kind - to earn a little and to spend a little less, to make upon the whole a family happier for his presence, to renounce when that shall be necessary and not be embittered, to keep a few friends, but these without capitulation - above all, on the same grim condition, to keep friends with himself - here is a task for all that a man has of fortitude and delicacy. He has an ambitious soul who would ask more; he has a hopeful spirit who should look in such an enterprise to be successful. There is indeed one element in human destiny that not blindness itself can controvert: whatever else we are intended to do, we are not intended to succeed; failure is the fate allotted.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Living honestly and kindly is a hard task; failure is inevitable but worth trying.
- In plain terms
- Being good is hard and you will fail, but try anyway.
- What can you take from it?
- Accept failure but strive to be honest and kind.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Is failure the only guaranteed outcome?
- How do you define success?
Another view
This view may discourage ambition for greater achievements.
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