It is an interesting law of romance that a truly strong woman will chose a strong man who disagrees with her over a weak one who goes along. Strength demands intelligence, intelligence demands stimulation, and weakness is boring. It is better to find a partner you can contend with for a lifetime than one who accommodates you because he doesn't really care. ... Sixty seconds of wondering if someone is about to kiss you is more entertaining than 60 minutes of kissing. ... Spill the beans, and the conversation is history. Speak in code, with wit and challenge, and the process of decryption is like foreplay.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Strong women prefer partners who challenge them intellectually rather than those who simply agree, as friction creates engagement and interest.
- In plain terms
- It is more exciting to date someone who disagrees with you than someone who just agrees.
- What can you take from it?
- Intellectual challenge keeps relationships interesting and meaningful.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Do you prefer agreement or challenge in a partner?
- Is conflict necessary for interest?
Another view
Constant disagreement can sometimes lead to unnecessary conflict.
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