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What does it mean?
Only marry someone you could comfortably sit next to for three days on a bus.
In plain terms
Choose a partner you can tolerate for long, close periods.
What can you take from it?
Compatibility shows up in everyday endurance.

Where it applies

  • long trips
  • daily life

Putting it to work

  • spend extended time together before committing
  • observe how you handle boredom

Questions to consider

  • What daily habits would you test before marriage?
  • Is patience enough for a lasting partnership?

Another view

Compatibility is more than tolerating boredom; deeper values matter.

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