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What does it mean?
Apathy, not hate, is the true opposite of love.
In plain terms
Not hating love is just caring; apathy is the opposite.
What can you take from it?
Indifference is worse than hate in relationships.

Where it applies

  • interpersonal relationships
  • conflict resolution
  • emotional connection

Putting it to work

  • avoid indifference
  • stay engaged
  • practice empathy

Questions to consider

  • Are you apathetic or just angry?
  • How do you show care?

Another view

Hate can also be harmful, just in a different way.

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