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What does it mean?
Some people use vulgar language as a substitute for real confidence or strength.
In plain terms
Obscenities can be a sign of insecurity rather than power.
What can you take from it?
Watch out for people who use swear words to sound tough.

Where it applies

  • casual conversation
  • professional settings
  • public speaking

Putting it to work

  • notice overuse of profanity
  • ask what someone really means

Questions to consider

  • Do you use strong language to feel powerful?
  • How do you judge someone's confidence?

Another view

Not everyone who swears lacks confidence.

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