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What does it mean?
People define themselves as 'We' and others as 'They'.
In plain terms
We are family, everyone else is They.
What can you take from it?
See beyond your group.

Where it applies

  • politics
  • community
  • identity

Putting it to work

  • empathize with outsiders
  • question bias

Questions to consider

  • Who is 'They' to you?

Another view

It ignores how 'We' changes.

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