While your rheumatism stays with you I naturally feel anxious to hear often. If you should be so unlucky as to become a cripple, it will certainly be bad, but you may be sure I shall be still a loving husband, and we shall make the best of it together.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Hayes reassures his wife that love persists despite illness or disability. He commits to making the best of difficult circumstances together.
- In plain terms
- Hayes promises to stay loving and supportive even if his wife becomes disabled.
- What can you take from it?
- Love endures through physical hardship and illness.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What sustains love during hardship?
- How do you support a loved one through disability?
Another view
Chronic illness can strain relationships despite good intentions.
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