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What does it mean?
Mark Twain defines good breeding as hiding one's self‑importance and thinking little of the other person.
In plain terms
Good breeding hides self‑importance and ignores others.
What can you take from it?
True modesty involves humility and genuine interest in others.

Where it applies

  • formal events
  • networking

Putting it to work

  • practice active listening
  • avoid bragging

Questions to consider

  • What does true modesty look like?
  • How can we balance humility with respect for others?

Another view

It contradicts the idea of caring for others.

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