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What does it mean?
Men and women should demand only what they can fairly give in return.
In plain terms
Women should ask for men from men only what men can ask from women.
What can you take from it?
Mutual respect requires equal standards for expectations between sexes.

Where it applies

  • relationships
  • workplace
  • society

Putting it to work

  • advocate for reciprocal respect
  • ensure equal standards

Questions to consider

  • What is fair reciprocity?
  • How do we ensure equality?

Another view

It does not address systemic inequalities that prevent true reciprocity.

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