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What does it mean?
People often do not realize how much they will change from their youth to their older years.
In plain terms
Young people rarely expect how different they will be when they get older.
What can you take from it?
Accept that identity and perspective shift significantly over time.

Where it applies

  • at midlife
  • looking back at youth
  • mentoring younger people

Putting it to work

  • reflect on past selves
  • embrace change
  • avoid rigidity

Questions to consider

  • Who were you at twenty-one compared to now?
  • What surprised you most about aging?

Another view

Some core traits remain consistent throughout life.

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