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While I was working on Downward Spiral, I was living in the house where Sharon Tate was killed. Then one day I met her sister. It was a random thing, just a brief encounter. And she said: 'Are you exploiting my sister's death by living in her house? 'For the first time, the whole thing kind of slapped me in the face. I said, 'No, it's just sort of my own interest in American folklore. I'm in this place where a weird part of history occurred. ' I guess it never really struck me before, but it did then. She lost her sister from a senseless, ignorant situation that I don't want to support. When she was talking to me, I realized for the first time, 'What if it was my sister?' I thought, 'Fuck Charlie Manson.' I went home and cried that night. It made me see there's another side to things, you know?

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Someone living where Sharon died realized the impact of their actions on her family. This shifted their perspective from historical interest to personal empathy.
In plain terms
Living in a murder victim's house seemed normal until the victim's sister questioned it.
What can you take from it?
Empathy often comes from imagining how you'd feel in someone else's place.

Where it applies

  • dealing with legacy
  • ethical reflection
  • historical events

Putting it to work

  • consider impact on survivors
  • reflect on actions

Questions to consider

  • When did you see another side of a story?
  • How do you handle history?

Another view

The speaker initially dismissed the concern until confronted directly.

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