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Until you have lost a child, you don't know what it is. Parents are supposed to die first. When your child is gone before you for an abnormal reason, it creates a whole abnormal situation... It was three years before I could even... I couldn't even look at Roman. Because, you see, I still expected Sharon to be with him, so I was playing games in my mind... Roman really loved Sharon, I know that, and he was very, very grieved.

Sharon Tate#12

FamilyLossSadness

About this quote

What does it mean?
Loss of a child creates an abnormal grief that distorts normal parental roles.
In plain terms
Parents dying before children creates a strange and hard grief.
What can you take from it?
Parental loss changes family dynamics permanently.

Where it applies

  • bereavement
  • family counseling
  • support group

Putting it to work

  • seek support
  • accept abnormal grief

Questions to consider

  • How do we support grieving parents?
  • What is normal grief?

Another view

Everyone grieves differently.

More from Sharon Tate

  1. I know I was horrible at times, I was. I really kept a tight rein on, I had to. I felt fine about Sharon being a star, as long as I was close by. You cannot pr…

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  2. This could destroy Roman. Marriage vows mean nothing to him but few men have adored a woman as much as he adored Sharon.

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  3. Dear God, she was beautiful. Sharon was more beautiful as a teenager than she was in her twenties; in Europe people would turn around on the street just to loo…

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