Until you have lost a child, you don't know what it is. Parents are supposed to die first. When your child is gone before you for an abnormal reason, it creates a whole abnormal situation... It was three years before I could even... I couldn't even look at Roman. Because, you see, I still expected Sharon to be with him, so I was playing games in my mind... Roman really loved Sharon, I know that, and he was very, very grieved.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Loss of a child creates an abnormal grief that distorts normal parental roles.
- In plain terms
- Parents dying before children creates a strange and hard grief.
- What can you take from it?
- Parental loss changes family dynamics permanently.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How do we support grieving parents?
- What is normal grief?
Another view
Everyone grieves differently.
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