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I had been gone a fortnight when the telegram was put into my hands. I had got a letter from my sister, a few hours before, saying that all was well at home. The telegram said in five words that she had died suddenly the previous night. There was no mention of my mother, and I was three days' journey from home. The news I got on reaching London was this: my mother did not understand that her daughter was dead, and they were waiting for me to tell her.

J. M. Barrie#14

FamilyLossCommunicationNewsSadness

About this quote

What does it mean?
Tragic news is delivered abruptly, leaving family members in painful uncertainty.
In plain terms
Receiving news of death is sudden and leaves loved ones unaware.
What can you take from it?
Grief often involves navigating incomplete and delayed information.

Where it applies

  • receiving bad news
  • family emergencies
  • long distance

Putting it to work

  • verify important news
  • prepare for difficult conversations

Questions to consider

  • How do you handle urgent bad news?
  • What responsibilities come with being the messenger?

Another view

Modern communication usually prevents such delays but does not reduce the impact of loss.

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