Skip to content
quotesby

Sometimes the little boy who calls me father brings me an invitation from his mother: 'I shall be so pleased if you will come and see me,' and I always reply in some such words as these: 'Dear madam, I decline.' And if David asks why I decline, I explain that it is because I have no desire to meet the woman. 'Come this time, father,' he urged lately, 'for it is her birthday, and she is twenty-six,' which is so great an age to David, that I think he fears she cannot last much longer.

J. M. Barrie#15

AvoidanceDistancePastRelationships

About this quote

What does it mean?
The author avoids meeting women he knows from the past, preferring to keep distance.
In plain terms
I decline invitations from women I know in the past.
What can you take from it?
Avoid rekindling old romantic connections.

Where it applies

  • reunions
  • dating
  • past relationships

Putting it to work

  • decline politely
  • set boundaries
  • avoid past

Questions to consider

  • Would you meet old friends?
  • Why do you avoid them?

Another view

Some might see this avoidance as impolite or cowardly.

More from J. M. Barrie

  1. I had been gone a fortnight when the telegram was put into my hands. I had got a letter from my sister, a few hours before, saying that all was well at home. T…

    Permalink to quote #14
  2. Shall we make a new rule of life from tonight: always to try to be a little kinder than is necessary?

    Permalink to quote #16
  3. My mother's favourite paraphrase is one known in our house as David's because it was the last he learned to repeat. It was also the last thing she read - Art t…

    Permalink to quote #13

Related quotes

  1. Saying that men talk about baseball in order to avoid talking about their feelings is the same as saying that women talk about their feelings in order to avoid…

    Deborah TannenDeborah Tannen quote #2
  2. I'm a - I'm a, um, a godmother which is just, that's fun to be a godmother, she is so precious, she's the light of my life, she's two... or five or something, …

    Ellen DeGeneresEllen DeGeneres quote #4
  3. Miss J. Hunter Dunn, Miss J. Hunter Dunn, Furnish'd and burnish'd by Aldershot sun, What strenuous singles we played after tea, We in the tournament - you agai…

    John BetjemanJohn Betjeman quote #5