Saying that men talk about baseball in order to avoid talking about their feelings is the same as saying that women talk about their feelings in order to avoid talking about baseball.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Men and women both use topics to avoid discussing feelings; attributing avoidance to only one gender is flawed.
- In plain terms
- Both genders use topics to avoid feelings, not just men.
- What can you take from it?
- Recognize avoidance tactics apply to all.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What do you talk about to avoid feelings?
Another view
Some differences in communication style exist.
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