We all know we are unique individuals, but we tend to see others as representatives of groups.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- People often generalize others based on group identity instead of recognizing their individuality.
- In plain terms
- We see people as members of groups rather than as unique individuals.
- What can you take from it?
- Look beyond stereotypes to see the person behind the group label.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Do you assume people fit their group profile?
- How do you show someone they are unique?
Another view
Group trends do exist and can inform understanding without defining individuals.
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