Get not your friends by bare compliments, but by giving them sensible tokens of your love.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Socrates advises that genuine friendship is built by giving meaningful tokens of love, not by empty flattery.
- In plain terms
- Earn friends through sincere acts, not just compliments.
- What can you take from it?
- Show love through concrete actions, not just words.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What actions best express appreciation?
- How to balance words and deeds?
Another view
Some cultures value verbal affirmation highly.
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