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Did they live happily ever after? They did not. No one ever does, in spite of what the stories may say. They had their good days, as you do, and they had their bad days, and you know about those. They had their victories, as you do, and they had their defeats, and you know about those, too. There were times when they felt ashamed of themselves, knowing they had not done their best, and there were times when they knew they had stood where their God had meant them to stand. All I'm trying to say is that they lived as well as they could.

Stephen King#11

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Real lives are messy mixtures of success and failure, not perfect fairy tales.
In plain terms
Life has good days and bad days.
What can you take from it?
Accept that life includes both victories and defeats.

Where it applies

  • reflecting on a life
  • seeking closure
  • storytelling

Putting it to work

  • memoir writing
  • therapeutic reflection
  • grief counseling

Questions to consider

  • What makes a life well-lived?
  • How do you define victory?

Another view

This simplifies complex life experiences into a binary of good and bad.

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