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Alcoholics build defenses like the Dutch build dikes. I spent the first twelve years or so of my married life assuring myself that I 'just liked to drink.' I also employed the world-famous Hemingway Defense. Although never clearly articulated (it would not be manly to do so), the Hemingway Defense goes something like this: as a writer, I am a very sensitive fellow, but I am also a man, and real men don't give in to their sensitivities. Only sissy-men do that. Therefore I drink. How else can I face the existential horror of it all and continue to work? Besides, come on, I can handle it. A real man always can.

Stephen King#116

AddictionAlcoholDefenseExistentialismJustificationMasculinity

About this quote

What does it mean?
The speaker describes how alcoholics justify drinking by appealing to masculinity and sensitivity, using a 'Hemingway Defense' to cope with existential horror.
In plain terms
People use gender roles to excuse addiction.
What can you take from it?
Addiction is often masked by cultural expectations of strength.

Where it applies

  • substance abuse
  • gender roles
  • personal struggle

Putting it to work

  • recognizing denial
  • challenging stereotypes

Questions to consider

  • How do you justify bad habits?
  • What does strength mean to you?

Another view

The defense described is personal and not universal.

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