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What does it mean?
The speaker suggests honesty is rare, but even honest people use skill to avoid harm.
In plain terms
Even honest people are careful not to hurt others with their words.
What can you take from it?
Honesty often requires tact to be effective.

Where it applies

  • difficult conversations
  • leadership
  • friendship

Putting it to work

  • practicing gentle truth

Questions to consider

  • How do you balance honesty and kindness?
  • Is skillful honesty still honest?

Another view

Sometimes direct honesty hurts regardless of skill.

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