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What does it mean?
Adversaries provide unique opportunities to develop patience and empathy that are harder to learn from friends.
In plain terms
Opponents teach us how to be kind and patient.
What can you take from it?
Use challenges from others to grow your character.

Where it applies

  • dealing with critics
  • conflict situations

Putting it to work

  • practicing patience with opponents
  • reframing conflict

Questions to consider

  • Who has taught me tolerance?
  • How can I respond to hostility with growth?

Another view

Not all hostility comes from a place that allows for teaching.

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