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What does it mean?
Do not allow small arguments to damage strong friendships. Value the relationship more than the dispute.
In plain terms
Small fights should not break big friendships.
What can you take from it?
Let go of small disputes to protect important relationships.

Where it applies

  • daily arguments
  • close friendships
  • family disputes

Putting it to work

  • forgive easily
  • let it go
  • focus on bond

Questions to consider

  • What is worth fighting for?
  • How do you handle small fights?

Another view

Some disputes might indicate deeper relationship problems.

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