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What does it mean?
Sometimes choosing not to speak is the best response to a situation.
In plain terms
Silence is sometimes better than speaking.
What can you take from it?
Choose silence when words add little.

Where it applies

  • arguments
  • difficult conversations
  • personal reflection

Putting it to work

  • pause before speaking
  • listen more
  • stay calm

Questions to consider

  • When is silence best?
  • Is it hard to stay quiet?

Another view

Silence can sometimes be mistaken for agreement or weakness.

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